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Friday, November 13, 2009

California, November 2009

Where do I even start?! It has been another amazing trip, and I hope that we make it back again someday.
First the traveling, well actually I am typing this blog entry as we fly 36,000 feet above sea level flying out of San Francisco. As our two very adorable children snooze away. I would give the flight here and home an A+. Benjamin and Jonna did exceptionally well, and Midwest helped quite a bit with that. Since neither flight there or home was full, we were able to bring Jonna’s car seat along too, and she had her own seat. Ben just loved the fact that we were flying in an airplane. This morning as we packed in the hotel room, Benjamin kept saying, “I wanna fly on an airplane!” Overall, the airport went very well. We did have a lot of baggage, but honestly it was no bd. Of course, I had it easy pushing the stroller, while Jake lugged four bags! But once we boarded everything was all well.
Ben was very excited for take off.



This isn't actually Jonna before take off, but it was her current status for both takeoffs to and from. haha.


Ok. So, to the fun stuff.
Day 1: Flew in to San Fran and got there about noon, which is 10am our time. Headed straight to San Bruno, a town directly south of San Fran, to visit Aunt Ethel, Uncle Victor, Cousin Holly, Cousin Fawn, and Great Grandpa Holee. I should describe him better as GREAT! Grandpa Holee. He was very excited to see us, and met us at the front steps. He moves pretty slow, but he gets to where he needs to be. I hope I can move that well at 84 years of age.
As many of you know, Grandma Boo just passed away about five weeks before. We had booked our trip four months ago, right after Jonna’s birth in order to visit both of them. But a lot can happen in four months. As we spend the time with Grandpa, it hit home on how much we wished we would have made the trip sooner. My advice to any of those with family, that has not had a chance to meet your kids yet, or even just visit with you, you should make it happen. There really wasn’t one thing I would have changed about this trip except making it three months earlier.

So, On with Day 1: Victor and Ethel could not have been more welcoming. We first had lunch there, then headed to our hotel in South San Fran. They picked us up from there to do some sight seeing. We headed straight to San Francisco and headed towards the piers. We got out for a little while to let Ben run around. He had great fun chasing the seagull in park in front og Ghiradelli Square, home of the famous chocolate, and Buena Vista, the restaurant famous for the development of "Irish Coffee". I know that sounds kind of Ironic, a mexican restaurant famous for makin and irish drink :)

Family in front of the Bay:






We walked down to the shoreline of the bay, and got a glimpse of the bay and Golden Gate Bridge and Alcatraz. The Golden Gate Bridge is awesome, but I have to say the Oakland Bay Bridge is even more magnificent. And LONG! We enjoyed a shrimp cocktail from “Fisherman’s Wharf” and then drove the EXTREME steep streets of downtown. We also hit the famous “LOMBARD” street. The Curviest street in the world. I can’t believe people actually live on it because it is so jam packed with tourists 24 hours a day. This picture is hard to view, but locate the cars as they curve down each wind of the street.


We made a quick trip to another famous spot of “COIT TOWER” which overlooks San Francisco. The tower was named after a famous woman firefighter. The view was amazing.


One thing that I found to be the most bizarre and unbelievable from this view is the amount of housing literally jam packed in the city. Most houses were of boxshape, and literally less than inch between one to the next. I have never seen anything like it.

The picture doesn't really do justice of the crowded housing.
Next, a drive thru China town. Only one word to describe this is complete chaos combined with some really amazing fresh Chinese food. Ethel stopped to get out and pick us up some “Dim-sum” an assortment of Chinese appetizers. SOOOO good! Sticky rice balls, meat balls, and chicken and shrimp balls.
Victor and Ethel were quite awesome tourist guides, and I know there would have been no way we would have conquered all of that ourselves in one afternoon in the city.
We headed to pick up cousin Fawn from her theatre company practice, and then headed home. On another note: It is very important to be quite the assertive driver in the city. Probably as well with any city, but honestly it was just plain nuts!
Headed to our room after that and ordered room service and headed to bed. Ben and Jonna weren’t the only ones exhausted from the long day.
DAY 2: SAN FRANCISCO ZOO BABY! The weather was perfect the entire time we were there. We stopped right before the zoo to view the amazing Pacific Ocean. I have seen lots of ocean, but the waves here were quite spectacular. I had never seen anything like them A quick photo, and we were off.
We are actually standing on a cliff above the beach. The waves don't look that big, but again, the picture doesn't do justice.

The zoo was awesome, but needless to say, the St. Louis zoo, is right up there with it. The best part was seeing the Gorillas, and then the Grizzly Bears. They were right up to glass for Ben’s viewing pleasure. I was even able to take a quick video.

And we couldn't leave without a trip to the Petting Zoo.
This is Ben talking to the Goat.


Then we went back to pick up Grandpa Holee to head to Aunt Jane’s house in Browns Valley, North of Sacramento.
We arrived there that evening. Aunt Jane welcomed us with a steak and asparagus dinner. MMMMMM!

Day 3, 4: And Jane’s house is nothing short of incredible. An enormous log cabin with 30 foot ceiling in the middle of California wilderness. I wish we would have taken more pictures of the house. This is the inside, but it doesn't do it justice.


She had a great dog named Rusty, pet chickens, and a pet PeaCock named Mario. There was this very small white rooster, named “WannaBe” He got his name by having what you could call “Little rooster syndrome” If you came near his hens he would crow at you over and over. And I found he liked to attack you from behind. I was walking behind Ben and Jake to check for eggs, when both ankles were attacked! I screamed of course not expecting the attack, but then he went at me again. Quite startled, I even scared Ben. Ben would never get too close to them, in fear of pecking, but he sure liked to look. I tried to pet Wannabe a couple times, but each time, his neck feathers would flare up and he would do a ninja drop kick with an added peck at my hand. Ben thought this was pretty hilarious.
Just a cute picture of Jonna at Jane's house.


We spent three nights hanging with the family. Went to Grass Valley and ate at a little diner called “Charley’s” Grandpa’s choice and it was some great eating! I learned a lot about Grandpa Holee. Such an interesting man. He worked in Heavy Equipment most of his life. He never fell short on enjoying his hobbies though. He owned 9 motorcycles in his life, and his favorite being a 1946 Harley Davidson, and his favorite car ever owned was a 1941 Packard Convertible. Can you imagine the pretty penny these would cost today. He was a Seabee in World War II. He met Grandma Boo Holee when he was 21 and she was 16. They were married two years later. Grandpa Holee spent a lot of his time reading old Airplaine flying magazines he had collected years ago. My favorite thing about visiting with him, would be his “Chuckle” He has the best chuckle of laughter I have heard in years. Just hearing this chuckle makes my heart light up in a way I can’t explain. His “OH” face when we asked him if he would like a cup of coffee, or piece of pie, or apple cobbler. I also enjoyed him singing the song “Tangerine” over and over to Jonna, as she grinned from ear to ear. He would call to her and tickle her feet.


He just watched Ben as he moved a million miles an hour and grinned and laughed at his rambunctious great grand son.


Watching him, I saw how much Jake’s Dad looked like him, and since Jake looks so much like his Dad, I can probably say, I know what Jake is going to look like in another 50 years!
We couldn’t leave without getting a four generation Holee man picture!
Yes, they have matching shirts! Too bad we didn't have a child size one for Ben!

I am not sure but I think this was a first time even. Great GPa , Papa Doug, Jake, and Ben are all the only Holee males carrying on the family name. Unless of course…… Ben were to have a brother in the future. That is years ahead, so I won’t got that route just yet.
I also got to read a letter about Grandma Boo written by one of her best friends and read at her memorial service. It made me laugh a little and cry a little. Just wishing we would have made the chance to get to know her better before she passed. She also seemed to be quite the lady, and made a huge impact on so many people in her life. The free spirit expressed in the letter, made me think of her as a sort of celebrity, that I have the pleasure of being related to.

And then there is the fresh fruit I have to mention! One thing we never fell short of on our trip was feasting on some fabulous meals. California and the fresh produce. You couldn’t travel 10 miles without passing a fresh fruit/produce stand. Apples, oranges, avocados, persimmons, squash! It was awesome.
Day 5:
Driving across Golden Gate Bridge. Spectacular


And this is our stop at the end of the bridge. I love this picture of Ben!


A walk thru Fisherman's Wharf

Our view of Alcatraz:


And watching the sea Lions from Pier 39

Smile Ben!




The night at the hotel before our trip home. Both nights were Ben and Jonna's first hotel night stay.

Went over quite well! Great purchase before out trip was the DVD player for Ben. As you can tell, Ben enjoyed it the most.


I am thinking this would be a wonderful ANNUAL trip to partake in!

Friday, November 6, 2009

Cali Trip 2009

We head for sunny San Francisco tomorrow! I can't wait. Family trip to meet some more family. Jake's two aunts, and Great Grandpa Holee live there. I really hope to be able to take a four generation of Holee men picture.
We will also be stopping in Novato, CA to meet my Great Uncle Joe Kusick, and then head to Northern Sacremento for a few nights stay.

So it is a full packed trip, and we will be back next Thursday night. We have a four hour plane ride, and believe it or not we started packing on Wednesday night. So we are traveling with three pieces of luggage, Computer, My "B" pump, Dvd Player, diaper bag, two carseats, and a stroller. Well, and our two cute kiddo's! We can do it!!! haha.

I have never been to California, so I can't wait. I believe the forecast is 60's and sunny. Keep us in your prayers for safe travel!

All is well in Holee Land. Less than 24 hours away, we will be enjoying the view of the Golden Gate Bridge! YAY!

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

I am the type of gal.....

That never likes to be late to anything.

Likes to plan everything including births of my children.

Eats sweets on daily basis, and would/have failed at any attempts to deplete carbs/candy from my diet.

Believes exercise and vitamins adds years to your life.

Forgets to put TP back on the toile paper roll after I have used the last square (hehe, sorry Jake)

Will not speed with my kids in the car, but will if I am by myself.

Doesn't have patience for people that make plans and change them at the last minute.(Yes, I am a hypocrite with this one, but kids come first, then work. Only I can make excuses. HAHA!)

Gets stressed out about my siblings!

Forgets to close the fridge or freezer door.

Drinks 1/2 her pot of 4cup coffee pot one morning and drinks the rest the next morning by just warming it up in the microwave.

Would much rather spend a weekend with my hubby, and two kids than go out with my friends (No offense to my girls, i just kind of became "that" Mom. But it doesn't keep me from going out sometimes:)

Doesn't win anything (bingo, lottery tickets, raffles)

Will bargain shop for absolutely everthing. Well, except diapers. I have tried and decided I have to use pampers or huggies.

Love the afternoon after we go grocery shopping. It is so exciting to have all that food in our house!

That knows she is way cooler than her brother Jason.

Likes to try new healthy foods, and loves to shop in a health food store.

Will buy cheap "decent" toilet paper if it is on sale.

Would rather dress sporty than dressy.

Loves to travel and go out to eat.

Really thinks being married to "my" husband is awesome.

Think that being a Mother has by far been the most incredible thing in my life ever, and I mean that times a million!

Prefers only to eat my mother-in-law's clam chowder.

Loves Cinnamon! Cinnabon, Cinnamon French toast. Cinnamon coffee cake, Cinnamon on Berries, Cinnamon Shredded Wheat, Cinnamon in my oatmeal.

Thinks I am pretty darn smart, and absolutely really hate to be wrong, but I am so much better about this than I ever used to be.

That will pray at the drop of a hat. Just because I worry so much. I am my mother's daughter.

That will get up and leave a situation if I feel even the slightest bit uncomfortable.

That my husband would call a picky eater.

Will dance with my kids at home all night long, but will get emabarrassed out in public dancing (well unless, I have had a few drinks in me:)

That sings the wrong words to songs all day long. haha, and will continue to do so, even after being corrected by my hubby a million times.

Loves a fresh cut grapefruit!

So these are just random things about myself that I decided to write about today, and I am going to tag as many girls as possible to see if they will do the same thing!

Lori
Alyssa
Becca
Miranda
Lindsey R.
Jenni C.
Tiffany M.
Crystal
Lynn H.

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Happy Halloween and Ben gets a tube in his left ear.

We had a great Halloween trick or treating. Ben got to be a fireman again for three good reasons, #1 He still loves firemen, and fire trucks #2 He doesn't have much of an opinion to express either way, and #3 He fit his fireman costume from last year. And well, he pretty much makes to be the cutest firman ever. Sorry Jake, you are a close second. And as you can see Jonna was the cutest littel pumpkin ever!


I had to dress up a little too, just to make it fun.



The thursday before, we had an appointment with ENT doctor for Ben's fluid in his ear. We have been seeing him since last April with concerns from our daycare provider that Ben was not hearing or speaking well. Developmentally Ben is actually doing great, but being that he has had fluid in his left ear that has decided to stay, the ENT doctor left us the choice of putting a tube in there to drain it out. Which will also help him probably hear better, and leave him a less likely chance this winter to get an infection in the left side. The right side has tested fine over the last several visits, so it hasn't been too much of a worry. Plus, the doc also found out we were flying in an airplane next week and then he stressed the fact about how uncomfortable it could be for Ben. He even pointed out that in some adults, they think they are having a stroke on the plane from the amount of discomfort they get from the fluid in the ear. So, why should Ben have to go through that if we could fix it before then.

Results: the next morning, we went in for a procedure to put the tube in. The most difficult part of all was probably having to keep all liquids and food away from him the morning of for anesthesia purposes. His procedure wasn't until 10am, and he was begging for a glass of milk starting at about 630. We kept telling him we were all out, and would get some at the store after the ear appointment. For the most part, that settled him enough, and he we couldn't really have asked for a better two year old. He went right into the operating room riding in the wagon behind the nurses with a smile on his face. Waking up from the anesthesia was scary, but Mom and Dad were there as soon as allowed. Man, lets talk about the wait during the procedure, which was exactly 23 minutes. I wanted so bad to be there by his side. I couldnt' wait to wrap him up in my arms to make everything better. Ask Jake, as soon as I saw him I dropped everything to the ground in the middle of the hallway, and grabbed him up from the nurse.

So, we took him out to eat afterwards, and he gobbled up a grilled cheese and some apples like nothing. Then at a chocolate chip cookie in the fastest time ever.
So, we shall see how it goes. I am hoping to find a lot less sickness this winter.

On another note, the doctor also recommended saline gel for all of us to help keep away dust, allergies and germs. We are already trying that out. I am always up for anything natural to keep away sickness.

Here's some pics just hanging around the house having fun and being goofy as always!

Of course Ben had to put them on after Jonna!

Jake thought this would be cute!

Ben's balancing act


Jonna with her cousin Sydney at Sydney's one year bday party.

The schwab's and the holee's